Life Matters

Its 1.42am in the Nigerian time and I couldn't sleep. Why is it that I couldn't sleep🤔? Well I found out that I have a lot on my mind which is obstructing my sleep. What if I finally fall asleep and don't wake? Automatically, my worries are gone. So its OK to dream, its OK to wish, its OK to aspire, its OK to want but don't be too hard on yourself. I know you want to tour the earth, you want to do a lot of things but don't choke yourself with your worries described as thoughts. Remember there is time and season for everything. Live now in good hopes and work diligently towards your dreams and aspirations. Be blessed

When you say "I Love You", what do you mean? Do you say you love me because you see me now? Do you say you love me because of the things I do for you? Do you say you love me because of what I have? Do you say you love me because of what you heard about me? Do you say you love me because of what you see in me? Do you say you love me out of obligation? Do you say you love me because of who I am?    What exactly do you mean when you say I love you?

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Mr Abraham: Hey honey, I have been meaning to ask you; When you look at me, what exactly do you see?      "Hmmmmm.............................       Baby, when I look at you, I see greatness all over you      When I look at you, I see an uprising star before me      When I look at you, I see a channel of blessings      When I look at you, I see an epitome of bravery and valour      When I look at you , I see an inspiration to a generation      When I look at you, I see a godly general      When I look at you, I see a problem solver, a solution carrier      When I look at you, I see an unbeatable role model      When I look at you my dearest, I see a whole world of fulfilment      I see everything in you, my package of wonders". These were the exact words of Mrs Abraham to her husband, Mr Ab...

God what kind of life am I living?, I keep eating the same food everyday, no money to get a decent meal. I have searched everywhere, I can't seem to get a job with all my qualifications. I am beautiful and independent but no decent suitor is coming forth. Why is my life not that of my friend?, she seems to have a perfect life. I want to rock designers, I want to cruise in a Land Cruiser but I can never get all these things, maybe in my dreams. Hmmm..................We humans huh!          We keep grumbling in God's ears instead of being grateful. We often pray to God for a magic to happen instead of a miracle that requires hard work and patience in getting our heart desires. What if you were you were created as a plant or an animal? Or what you weren't alive to complain about any troubles? Be thankful for the life you have and the whole lots you are going to accomplish with it; Be grateful for where you are coming from, where you are and...

No Stars shinning No Moon to give a little vision The silence in the surrounding is deafening The calmness present is like that of the beginning of creation The breeze blowing shows no mercy Often I think I found myself but I am lost to everyone I thought I could move without seeing but I cannot I call for help but all to no avail On and on, I move in the shadow of myself It is a dark night.

Hmmmmm........... Things you would have done ordinarily, you wait on me to do it. Words I could have said ordinarily, I wait on you to say it. I feel I am always right and you are often wrong. You feel you always right and I am often wrong. I act carelessly and irrationally. You act carefree and immature. Little by little, we drift apart. Where does that leave us?????

Know your worth, appreciate yourself even when nobody is appreciating you. You deserve to be happy😀 but don't be selfish about it😉.

Most times the level of segregation in our societies, workplace, schools or churches, prompts to us ask questions we can't seem to get answers to. But then, we don't know what the future holds for us; so do not loose hope because there will surely be light at the end of every dark tunnels.

There are times like now, that I feel helpless. There are times that I don't have a single clue on what to do or the next step to take. There are also times I get confused about how I feel or what I am feeling or  how I ought to feel.      Well the thing is, I can't always give answers to all questions because I am not a body of knowledge, well I could have been but creation dint allow that. So it OK👌to get confused at times, and when that occurs, you should learn to share your worries with a sound mind, who could in turn help you see things aright. However, what is wrong is remaining in your state of confusion.

You decide what you feel, do not let people decide what or how you should feel.

I saw this short clip and I spent minutes laughing my ribs out but on a serious note, poverty is really running fast to catch up with us. It now depends on us as individuals to shut the door against it or give it a room. What's your decision???

Note: Well when I say testimonies, I am not talking about court testimonies 🗣.    Testimonies are happenings that are meant to influence people's lives positively such as: helping them to believe in their dreams, helping them to renew their lost hopes that they will surely survive in life no matter how hard it may tend to be, no matter how many times they failed in making that goal come to reality, it is still possible to achieve it provided you keep trying. Well, In this era, people have failed to realise that their testimonies are causing the downfall of others; well maybe not the testimony itself but the charades accorded to it.     "Oh chilling in my new Lamborghini", " Its not a simple thing to be a billionaire", enjoying my vacation in Ibiza, Spain" or "Rocking my Chanel bag and D&G (Dolce&Gabbana) heels" and so on . News splash! don't think you deserve to be celebrated for travelling around the world, spending mo...

As a young youth, I have grown so accustomed to my fears. Going through a day without thinking about them would be a breakthrough for me. Well life isn't giving much of an option though. As humans, we are particular about what life has offered, is offering and is still going to offer us so long we on earth and coming from the part of the world that life hasn't been so fair, we tend to device means to suck out this fair share from life; which brings us to digging our hands into all manner of vices in other to achieve these goals that we fear won't come to reality. Hmmmmmmm! Do not let your fears drag you into the mud, stand tall and fight it.