Speak Out

You think you can go through life alone?
You think you can run your relationship based on the shallow knowledge(of relationship) you have?
You think advises from people are irrelevant and would only complicate things?
You think you can take care of situations alone with just your ability?
You think sharing your problems or burdens will only make you a joke?
   Well my answer for you is 'NO NO NO'........
Wisdom is profitable to direct, so says the Bible. Whosoever will stand and say I don't need others to go through life is a Big Liar. No man is an island or a body of knowledge. One way or the other, you need people to walk you through life either families, friends, pastors, teachers, mentors, etc that you re or might have been surrounded with.
You can't run or coordinate your relationship with you little perception of it, you need more knowledge in other to thrive well in your relationship. Even as a professional, you need more knowledge because you can't know all about your chosen field. Unshared problems remain unresolved, the problem might seem to go away for a while but on the long run, it will still surface because it is unresolved.
       Oh you are thinking you will be mocked if you share your problems or burdens, No.
Nobody will mock you or laugh at you if you are conscious of who or whom you relate your burdens with. That is, share your problems with the right people such as trustworthy and reliable people who has gained much experience over the years(I.e older folks, family, clerics, friends and so on) relating to the situations you are going through.
Remember, a problem shared is a problem half solved, just like the saying goes. Don't wait till your problem chokes or destroys you, speak to someone today.

Bless You,
Much love from Bhighearts😘.