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- October 21, 2018

Know your worth, appreciate yourself even when nobody is appreciating you.
You deserve to be happy😀 but don't be selfish about it😉.

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Boy On a Swing by Oswald Mbuyiseni Mtshali

- October 20, 2018

Most times the level of segregation in our societies, workplace, schools or churches, prompts to us ask questions we can't seem to get answers to. But then, we don't know what the future holds for us; so do not loose hope because there will surely be light at the end of every dark tunnels.

LIFE

- November 05, 2018

Happy times, sad times is part of life At times you are victorious, at times you are defeated, it is life. There are times you can tear through situations with your strength, there are times you become weak, it is life. There are times you are joyous , there are times you are sad, it is life. There are times you have in abundance, there are times you don't get to have, it is still life. Life is not always a bed of roses, even for those born with silver, gold or bronze spoons. But the good news is, life is the combination of "yesterday, today and tomorrow"; who you are yesterday isn't who you are today and who you are today isn't who you will be tomorrow. If you are experiencing the good, hold steadfast and make full use of present situation to shapen your happy tomorrow; And if you are experiencing the bad, keep up the hardwork and keep hoping for the best of tomorrow. You know, Life happens.

Love or Not

- June 08, 2019

In love; you fight, you quarrel and settle again. Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to unconditionally accept bad behaviors; you try to make it work and its seeming worse by the day, let it go. Love shouldn't make you cry or be sorrowful often, love shouldn't inflict fear in you. If your relationship can't help you build up your life (either male or female folks), it shouldn't help break the existing one.. Stay healthy in every aspect, most importantly, your relationship or love life because it coordinates the other aspects of ones life one way or the other. Remember, Being healthy is impo rtant .

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Boy On a Swing by Oswald Mbuyiseni Mtshali

- October 20, 2018

Most times the level of segregation in our societies, workplace, schools or churches, prompts to us ask questions we can't seem to get answers to. But then, we don't know what the future holds for us; so do not loose hope because there will surely be light at the end of every dark tunnels.

LIFE

- November 05, 2018

Happy times, sad times is part of life At times you are victorious, at times you are defeated, it is life. There are times you can tear through situations with your strength, there are times you become weak, it is life. There are times you are joyous , there are times you are sad, it is life. There are times you have in abundance, there are times you don't get to have, it is still life. Life is not always a bed of roses, even for those born with silver, gold or bronze spoons. But the good news is, life is the combination of "yesterday, today and tomorrow"; who you are yesterday isn't who you are today and who you are today isn't who you will be tomorrow. If you are experiencing the good, hold steadfast and make full use of present situation to shapen your happy tomorrow; And if you are experiencing the bad, keep up the hardwork and keep hoping for the best of tomorrow. You know, Life happens.

Love or Not

- June 08, 2019

In love; you fight, you quarrel and settle again. Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to unconditionally accept bad behaviors; you try to make it work and its seeming worse by the day, let it go. Love shouldn't make you cry or be sorrowful often, love shouldn't inflict fear in you. If your relationship can't help you build up your life (either male or female folks), it shouldn't help break the existing one.. Stay healthy in every aspect, most importantly, your relationship or love life because it coordinates the other aspects of ones life one way or the other. Remember, Being healthy is impo rtant .

Its been a while.

- April 24, 2020

I have been away for so long, busy with life as any other regular human. Trying to survive like every other youth in the world; Sometimes I smile, sometimes I cry over many disappointments especially the ones I have been getting lately, but I am hopeful and always waiting on the sun to shine on me someday. So for the time being, I am going to be writing again; mostly my personal thoughts and experiences in these past weeks and months. Not promising but I will try to be consistent. So thank you for sticking around. Love from Bhighearts✌.

Its a New Year

- January 05, 2019

The much anticipated 2019 is here and counting already. I am so excited for no reason, for me, its a good start... Many has penned down a lot of resolutions, to dos and don't dos this year, a list of people to associate with and people to disassociate from, ways of getting needs met or goals achieved; all these is good, it is good to plan your lives out. But do not fret, just relax when your plans isn't working the way you think it should. Remember, we can only plan but God executes. So enjoy the year, be yourself, open your mind to the goodness of life, try to do things that makes you happy but not at the expense of others, work harder(who knows where luck might shine on you), do good to others because each good you do comes back to you in folds and always be you not someone else.... Much love from Bhighearts Have a blessed year all the way.....

Family Differences (Siblings..........Continued)

- November 27, 2018

Each siblings finds solace in strangers taken as friends and on the long run, becoming parts of their lives,treating then in the manner they ought to have treated their own family. Little or nothing could parents do when children are grown if any form of closeness was not bred among/between them from childhood. In most cases, the causes of this difference or separation among/between siblings is as a result of: . parental negligence:- not paying keen attention to their children when parents ought to. . Ideology differences:- which is, seeing life from different perspectives or having different thoughts towards life. . Egoistic attitudes/behaviours:- sometimes, older sibling finds it difficult to relate with or confide in the younger sibling due to the value of their birth rites or self-accorded importance of guiding and leading the younger sibling through life. This could in turn, make the younger sibling inferior and also lack confi...

Internal Discrimination or Differentiation (Continued)

- November 11, 2018

Little by little, unconsciously, we begin to differentiate ourselves away from younger siblings because we are older and we think we are better; differentiate ourselves as a better in the house of God(Church); differentiate ourselves as a better among friends at school; differentiate ourselves as a better among workers at workplaces; differentiate ourselves as the best among people in the society. Slowly our piled up differentiations turns into a fully fledged discrimination. In the law of nature, no one is above the other; situations changes, growth occurs, powers are being transfered, table turns, etc. Therefore, nothing is constant in life , learn to treat others right and with respect because in the real sense, we are never really above one another even if it seems we are, its just for a very short while.

Your Meaning of Love

- October 30, 2018

When you say "I Love You", what do you mean? Do you say you love me because you see me now? Do you say you love me because of the things I do for you? Do you say you love me because of what I have? Do you say you love me because of what you heard about me? Do you say you love me because of what you see in me? Do you say you love me out of obligation? Do you say you love me because of who I am? What exactly do you mean when you say I love you?

Do The Right Thing

- December 19, 2018

It baffles me sometimes, seeing fellow humans relate in an unbefitting or a less humanly manner. I am not really going into details of an incident that happened today while at work due to reasons best known to me; But I will say this, on no account should one disrespect a fellow human being because he or she is lesser in anyway we might think of. Nobody knows who is who, the person you are looking down on may turn out to be much more than you think. At every given given instance, either at home(family), school, church, workplace or even the society at large, try to treat whoever comes your way with dignity and respect. And respect they say is reciprocal. Lots of Love from Bhighearts.

Internal Discrimination or Differentiation

- November 10, 2018

Separation of one from two Separation of two from three The rich is to be separated from the poor, so they say We do not live by the same culture, therefore we should be far apart Our religion is different, we do not serve the same God, we cannot be seen together You are from a lower class, we cannot be seen socialising together Our age grade is different, I cannot roll with you because I am older I speak in tongues including going to spirit-lifting church programs; you don't do any of that, therefore we cannot be seen together because you are a pagan So on and on, discrimination becomes the order of the day.......... So far so good, We blacks(betterstill most of us) have termed discrimination to be just racial(I.e whites against blacks or vice-versa). But the truth is that, the level of discrimination among ourselves(Blacks) is higher than that of the racial discrimination between the whites and the blacks........................... .To be continued.

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