Life Matters

It baffles me sometimes, seeing fellow humans relate in an unbefitting or a less humanly manner. I am not really going into details of an incident that happened today while at work due to reasons best known to me; But I will say this, on no account should one disrespect a fellow human being because he or she is lesser in anyway we might think of. Nobody knows who is who, the person you are looking down on may turn out to be much more than you think. At every given given instance, either at home(family), school, church, workplace or even the society at large, try to treat whoever comes your way with dignity and respect. And respect they say is reciprocal.     Lots of Love from Bhighearts.

Oh I can't take it anymore I have tried and tried and even tried again Nothing seems to be working Earth isn't favouring me I don't want to be a part of it anymore Maybe when am gone, all my worries will vanish!!        Sometimes, over thinking breeds depression and this depression could result in suicide if not attended to. Your mistakes, failures or lacks is not the end of life; So far you have life, situations will change for the better at a point in time. Thinking about your fears won't make them go away, its will only keep increasing and thereby tormenting you if you don't confront these fears.  Well I am sure that goodness will come knocking, favour will come knocking, blessings will come knocking, success will come knocking,  that breakthrough you have always craved for, will come knocking at your door; will you be there to open up or be lost cold in death, all in the name of depression or suicide?   Suicide isn't an option, yo...

Why is everything so twisted? The things we see, seems to be real but proves to be wrong. After the whole celebration and declaration of Nigerian independence in 1960, one would think Nigeria has gained its total liberty from slavery, oppressive ruling, human and material exploitation, etc; but reverse is the case. Only for Nigerians to be practicing quasi independence, advanced form of slavery, advanced form of exploitation, indirect hijacking of government by foreigners. I once worked with a south-African firm, based here in Nigeria; workers were made to work Mondays to Saturdays and it was later directed for them to work on Sundays too, all in the name of "making a living", which shouldn't be so on any bases. There are lots of foreign companies being established right here in Nigeria which one would have thought its a means of eradicating unemployment in the country and making lives better for Nigerians,  based how well they have thrived and contributed to their ho...

You think you can go through life alone? You think you can run your relationship based on the shallow knowledge(of relationship) you have? You think advises from people are irrelevant and would only complicate things? You think you can take care of situations alone with just your ability? You think sharing your problems or burdens will only make you a joke?    Well my answer for you is 'NO NO NO'........ Wisdom is profitable to direct, so says the Bible. Whosoever will stand and say I don't need others to go through life is a Big Liar. No man is an island or a body of knowledge. One way or the other, you need people to walk you through life either families, friends, pastors, teachers, mentors, etc that you re or might have been surrounded with. You can't run or coordinate your relationship with you little perception of it, you need more knowledge in other to thrive well in your relationship. Even as a professional, you need more knowledge because you can't ...

Oooooppppssssss!     I am so so so sorry  you haven't heard from me lately friends... Been a bit down but then I am rising in strength again. I am back on my fit and you would be hearing from me soon. Just keep the hopes up. Lots of Love from Bhighearts.

Woooooowwwwwww !!!!!!!!!!! Its Friday already and also the last day in November 2018. Well, seems the year is in a big rush to pave way for 2019 to come through (just teasing).... I can't help but count my blessings. Looking back to the beginning of 2018, I keep on wondering how I got this far. People who are better of me are no more or don't even have what I have and am happy about. That is why I am grateful for life, for happiness even when it seems to be hiding, for good health, for the family , friends & the loved ones I am surrounded with. Oh I am grateful for love. I am grateful for that which I had, for that which I have now and that which I am still going to have. I am grateful for everything   What are you grateful for????????

      Each siblings finds solace in strangers taken as friends and on the long run, becoming parts of their lives,treating then in the manner they ought to have treated their own family. Little or nothing could parents do when children are grown if any form of closeness was not bred among/between them from childhood. In most cases, the causes of this difference or separation among/between siblings is as a result of: .  parental negligence:- not paying keen attention to their children when parents ought to. . Ideology differences:-  which is, seeing life from different perspectives or having different thoughts towards life. . Egoistic attitudes/behaviours:-  sometimes, older sibling finds it difficult to relate with or confide in the younger sibling due to the value of their birth rites or self-accorded importance of guiding and leading the younger sibling through life. This could in turn, make the younger sibling inferior and also lack confi...